I think I am a bad person.
I mean nobody is perfect. Sure I know very well how to get my sass on when the occasion calls for it, but something came out of left field a couple of days ago.
“I think Sam hates me”
I really didn’t think that 5 words from a complete stranger could affect me so much.
If you know me and you feel that way, then I’m sure you deserve it, but not a stranger.
Let me explain.
There are quite a few job openings in my current workplace. They have hired some people, however not nearly as many people as needed, but that isn’t the point. There were 2 people who were put onto my team and it’s basically up to the team members to train the staff on procedures that need to be followed. There was one girl called Kerrie who was fantastic. Asking questions, doing everything right, involving herself in workplace banter. Then there was the other girl. Lets just call her “L”
L was really quiet. Nothing wrong with that. Maybe she was just shy. However that was proven wrong when she was speaking and flirting with all the guys but as soon as she was back with me it was silence.
She also wasn’t listening to instructions. I was there to help her and explain what we do and how we do it, but she was so dis-interested that it was alway a genuine shock to see her at work the next day (late of course)
When she started working with some other friends of mine, I warned them that she didn’t really care so just be careful. She was exactly the same with them. They had told her their whole life stories and she had barely spoken a word. The only thing she did say was “I think Sam hates me.”
When she started working with some other friends of mine, I warned them that she didn’t really care so just be careful. She was exactly the same with them. They had told her their whole life stories and she had barely spoken a word. The only thing she did say was “I think Sam hates me.”
They didn’t deny it.
So now I have to work with somebody who thinks I hate them. Which is super untrue as I don’t even know the girl.
But then to make matters worse, L is starting it get signed off so she can now work without supervision. She approached me and said “Oh hey you need to sign off as my supervisor. They asked me who trained me and I said Sam… wait, your name is Sam right?”
A whole week I spent with this girl, as she ignored me and everything I said and she didn’t even bother to get my name straight as she starts telling people how much I dont like her.
Well If I wasn’t Regina George before, I will be now.
Aussie out
xo
Urrghhhhh I can't stand people like that! Maybe this is why I don't have many girlfriends! Something similar happened to me recently. This girl that I had never met before, but heard about, because she's my housemates course mate, told one of my other friends who happens to have a module with the two of them, that I "really hate her". I am really not sure where she got it from, I've met her since then (unforch I was hungover and miserable haha) I really don't know how she thought someone who had never met her could hate her? The only thing I could think of is the housemate she is friends with is one of my best friends, and we joke about us making new best friends with others and being like "who is she?!" so she could have misunderstood that little joke, maybe she's a wee bit sensitive haha. Either way it's annoying when people don't even give you a chance. When they don't I say get that super overly nice accommodating face on ;)
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